Author: Eva Cunningham, Tate Soller
After navigating our way through a dark
alleyway situated off a bustling street in the heart of Delhi, traversing up
several flights of stairs littered with an array of cords and wires sprouting
from the walls around, and then proceeding down a dimly lit corridor we arrived
at the Pahal Foundation headquarters. Covered wall to wall in bright posters
showcasing the progress and triumphs of the transgender women that the
organisation work with, and the change- themselves, the office was a colourful
breath of fresh air.
Sarita Shukla is a young woman pursuing her
dream of working with the transgender community. The name of the organisation
she works with, Pahal, means to start something, a beginning. This is exactly
what Sarita is enacting. She first realised her aspiration of working with the
transgender community when she met a transgender “didi” for the first time and heard her
incredible story. This story of social exclusion and total abandonment struck a
chord with Sarita and incited her to use her voice to spread these stories to
the wider community.
While working at another NGO, which was
aiding sex workers, she found herself questioning the root causes of these
endemic problems facing transgender people such as; a lack of education, social
exclusion and being cut off from families. This is an unfortunate reality for
many transgender people as they have often been alienated from society and face
restrictions in the everyday.Through talking to these people, she realised for
the first time what it really feels to havedreams completely shattered. Their
stigmatisation and consequent social isolation restrict their ability to get
jobs and creates an enormous strain on their livelihoods. Through her interest
in the transgender community she begun to form close ties with several
transgender women. “Why don't you work with us?” they questioned, due to the
keen interest and understanding she elicited.
Despite the evident passion exhibited by
Sarita, she has encountered numerous challenges along the way. The lack of
support given by her father stood as a major barrier for Sarita, who places
great importance on familial acceptance and understanding. And later, when her
father went out of work she was forced to take a diversion from her dream and
to work in order to support her family financially. She felt her dream becoming
less and less tangible. But her persistence despite the obstacles thrown in her
path only strengthened her resolve to follow the path she had set out to
pursue.
This importance of family also flows
through her work with transgender women. Her primary project as a Changeloomer
is to reconnect transgender people with their families. Many of their families
have abandoned them due to their identities as they saw their transgenderism as
a form of social humiliation. She is currently works to reconnect 20
transgender women with their families. Sarita counsels both sides and
emphasises the importance of accepting “what” someone identifies as. For
Sarita, family support is integral as it represents one's roots in society.
One's family have a responsibility to continue to support and care for their
children right through to adulthood, no matter how they identify themselves.
This, process either provides support to the transgender women involved or
gives them closure.
Another difficulty, she explained, are the
threats she has received from some of the families she has sought to connect
with. These threats emanate from certain religious justifications for the
families' abandonment of these women. But these have not had an effect on
Sarita's work – she powers on and inspires those around her.
Embodying this success is one transgender
woman in particular, who Sarita names as the biggest source of pride in her
work thus far. She has come a long way
since Sarita first took her under her wing. Beginning life as an orphan, her
hardship only increased from there. Her identification as transgender meant she
was ostracised from society and restricted from acquiring a job. She could
barely supply herself with adequate food to eat and lived on the streets,
enduring the brunt of the coldest, harshest winters with her home as the
unsheltered streets. Since then Sarita has helped her transform herself &
her life, from previously being in a 'bad place' and now leading a happier,
more fulfilled life. Now volunteering at Pahal, she learns admin and other
tasks to aid her job prospects in the future, as well as surrounding herself in
an environment of support and understanding.
Sarita's involvement in the Changelooms
programs has aided her progress in reconnecting transgender women with their
families. As she explains, it has given her work greater visibility, as well as
connecting her with like like-minded entrepreneurs and mentors. As her
involvement as a changeloomer is soon coming to an end, her words of advice to
fellow change-markers and those aspiring to create change is to “be
passionate...[and] don't get into it if you're not sure”, but also that “anything can be changed, you just have to
set an example”.
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